tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post3854607897382315909..comments2024-02-21T15:08:02.808-08:00Comments on wan life to live: forgivenesswanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13898341154510122057noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-68800841520597103252008-04-30T13:41:00.000-07:002008-04-30T13:41:00.000-07:00I don't think anyone with any sense would fault yo...I don't think anyone with any sense would fault you for not forgiving. To do so would be divine, but you've already proven that you don't need to in order to have a happy, productive life. At any rate, you know I'm here for whatever you need whether it's a laugh or a listen. You are not alone.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Are you singing that song in your head yet? ;)Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02999152197022534361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-36415271698025323592008-04-24T21:58:00.000-07:002008-04-24T21:58:00.000-07:00Hang in there. You know I'm here for you.Hang in there. You know I'm here for you.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08840278504302363355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-64595479254206056252008-04-18T09:35:00.000-07:002008-04-18T09:35:00.000-07:00I couldn't have said it better than tater. I'm se...I couldn't have said it better than tater. I'm sending loads of good thoughts in your direction.That Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08004439474693190019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-20547816076282448882008-04-18T09:06:00.000-07:002008-04-18T09:06:00.000-07:00I don't know what it is you need to forgive, but I...I don't know what it is you need to forgive, but I trust that it is something very difficult indeed. The word victimized is very strong and upsetting. So, if you feel you need to forgive, then I really hope you have the strength to do so. I will be thinking happy and strong thoughts for you about being able to do that. Sometimes I don't think about forgiveness in the sense that I won't ever feel sad or mad about it or that person anymore, but that those feelings don't allow me to move on with my life; and it they also don't do anything to the other person. They don't know--they're going on living their life. So it's only hurting me, and not sending hateful bad karmic vibes their way. So to make my life easier, I just let it go. It's not quite the same as forgiveness, but it works for me.willikathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18290023050281646936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-14797624461021790022008-04-18T06:47:00.000-07:002008-04-18T06:47:00.000-07:00I'm sending you my positive and happy vibes. [hugs...I'm sending you my positive and happy vibes. [hugs]Winniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08102087490031989152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-45856025707491558822008-04-18T06:08:00.000-07:002008-04-18T06:08:00.000-07:00I will be praying for you as well as your loved on...I will be praying for you as well as your loved ones.Jessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-90326133512166823062008-04-17T20:52:00.000-07:002008-04-17T20:52:00.000-07:00You and me. Two peas. One pod. I will pray. Therap...You and me. Two peas. One pod. I will pray. Therapy is great too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-62117978837306362192008-04-17T17:05:00.000-07:002008-04-17T17:05:00.000-07:00done, done, and done.something that someone i resp...done, done, and done.<BR/><BR/>something that someone i respect once told me has stuck with me. in essence, it's that forgiving and forgetting are two very different things. it's OK if there are certain things you can forget but not forgive and vice versa. you don't *have* to do both for every situation, necessarily. yeah, we are commanded to forgive, but it can be a very vey long process and that's OK.<BR/><BR/>anyway, prayer list it is because i'm just talking out of my clueless and unwise butt.dapotatohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01636556067344382571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-1173300650445151162008-04-17T16:21:00.000-07:002008-04-17T16:21:00.000-07:00I don't know what you are going through, but just ...I don't know what you are going through, but just follow your intuition. If forgiving someone doesn't feel right, and you are just doing it for the sake of others, I think you will live to regret it. You have to do things for the right reasons. Take care of yourself first.<BR/><BR/>Hugs, my dear. Positive energy going your way :)California Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08648929620958646555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-68673961295380995272008-04-17T15:31:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:31:00.000-07:00You're a bigger person than I am. (Well, actually...You're a bigger person than I am. (Well, actually you're much smaller, but that's not what I mean.)<BR/><BR/>Knowing what I know, I wouldn't forgive in this situation. Nobody who does that should be forgiven in my book.<BR/><BR/>And I am of the belief that it is not your duty to do so simply for others to be able to feel better.weezermonkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08023289768556784443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-73950909337120914102008-04-17T15:27:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:27:00.000-07:00you know you're already on my prayer list. you are...you know you're already on my prayer list. you are such a strong woman and i know that you are going to get through this. i'm always here if you need me. <BR/><BR/>{{hugs}}amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12029076436322883513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-9654638902946785562008-04-17T15:19:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:19:00.000-07:00You are on my prayer list. I know you will find th...You are on my prayer list. I know you will find the strength to do this. All my best intentions.delovelydetailshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04692504008352302998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-40866384746969329282008-04-17T15:16:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:16:00.000-07:00I will be thinking positive thoughts for you. I'm ...I will be thinking positive thoughts for you. I'm sorry.<BR/><BR/>The last line made me smile too.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12600725954753853049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-65685721986597695612008-04-17T15:09:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:09:00.000-07:00I'm thinking good thoughts for you and yours. And ...I'm thinking good thoughts for you and yours. <BR/><BR/>And that last line made me laugh out loud. :)Nanettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378339600081931938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-4543723016296209432008-04-17T14:57:00.000-07:002008-04-17T14:57:00.000-07:00I don't pray but all the goodness I can muster is ...I don't pray but all the goodness I can muster is saved up just for you. I have a feeling I can relate to what you are going through, so if you need it, I am here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-750137054841847.post-1107493784075802512008-04-17T14:13:00.000-07:002008-04-17T14:13:00.000-07:00I pray and you'll be in my prayers J.I pray and you'll be in my prayers J.VCBride2Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12614234634427077066noreply@blogger.com